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Shane, Dave and their pastor at Shane & Dave's wedding

I flew to and from DC on Mexicana Airlines. Months ago, they had a 40% sale on tickets and we snagged the opportunity to get the round-trip flight for about $367 USD. The flight had a layover in Mexico City for an hour and a half. However on the itinerary receipt was some small text saying "Una escala tecnica", or in English a "refuelling stopover". I figured the plane would land somewhere briefly to refuel, or maybe a refuel in Mexico City itself before we left. It turned out this small print meant a full-scale layover in Cancun! All the passengers except for 10 of us had Cancun as their final destination.

The rest of us continuing passengers also had to get off the plane with our belongings, go through security and US immigration procedures (though I'd done some of this in Mexico City), and then wait 45 minutes to reboard a separate plane to Washington DC. To the credit of the staff, the service was excellent and they guided us through the process easily and quickly.

The Dupont Circle view from Richard's apartment
Thursday morning I prepared for the day while Richard and his intern left for New York for an architectural consultation on a downtown apartment. Richard is a principal of Kube Architecture.  I took the metro and bus to Six Flags America rollercoaster and water park, meeting up with Shane (the friend getting married) along the way. Shane and I had a great time catching up. Being a weekday before schools formally closed, there were hardly any lines, and for some rides you could just walk up and get on! The park did have the odd habit of reguarly cancelling some rides though, which opened up later in the day. It was very hot, humid, and blazing sun. Despite sunblock, I got a bit burnt. We hit the water park rides half-way through to cool off, then we returned to the rollercoasters later in the afternoon. The park itself is okay, not great as a theme park, but the rides themselves were amazing! My three favorites were the Superman, the Tornado, and the Roar rides.
Andrew J. Wharton at The Mind Eraser ride in Six Flags America, Baltimore
Back at Richard's apartment I was exhausted from the days travelling and at the Park, so I fell into bed and slept for 11 hours!

Friday morning I took my time getting up and packing my bags. I left a bag at the concierge while I took a sightseeing tour around the historic Dupont Circle neighborhood, picking up a few necessities along the way.

Historic Dupont Circle neighborhood


At midday I met Dan Bold at a very funky bookshop in Dupont called Kramerbooks & Afterwords Café, and we decided to check out the National Aquarium.

A word of advice for tourist places in DC - many call themselves "National" purely because they are located in DC, not because they are any good, or are federally funded, or are the best example of something. For instance, the Aquarium was overpriced for what you got - a bunch of underground tanks showing you different small fish species, and one alligator and one squid hardly worth their names. I normally like aquariums but this one was dead boring.
 

Andrew J. Wharton at the Washington Monument, Washington, D.C.

After a catch-up and good conversation, we headed out to the Pentagon City Mall to go clothes shopping and pick up wedding gifts for Shane and Dave. Tasks eventually completed, we shopped a bit at Target, looked for an open takeaway joint, then settled for McDonalds drivethrough. The service guy there told us the ice-cream machine was broken, but we saw him through the server window give a woman an ice cream! Laughter ensued, and I got my ice cream from the lazy employee.

Shane and Dave's wedding pavilion at Sandy Point State Park, Maryland

Andrew J. Wharton playing beach badminton at Shane and Dave's wedding at Sandy Point State Park, Maryland


Sunday morning we went to the Christ Our Shepherd church on Capitol Hill. The sermon was very good and intelligent, about the nature of truth and how we should approach truth-seeking.
 

Eastern Farmer's Market at Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.
 

The main purpose of my (Andrew's) trip to Washington DC in June 2010 was to go to the wedding of my friends Shane Bauman and Dave Martel. But given the expense of the trip, I spent four full days in Washington DC to meet up with other friends and have some fun.

Mexico City from the air
Smog covering central Mexico City
The humidity at Cancun was amazing. When the plane depressurized at the airport, steam flooded out of the airvents and started filling the cabin. Outside it felt like walking through a steam room. The air conditioned part of the airport felt like a fridge in comparison. Inside, the airport was filled with burnt, baked and roasted tourists from around the world, looking beach-weary and ready to head home.

At Dulles International Airport I managed to get through immigration, security and customs in about 45 minutes. I took the 5A bus to Rosslyn Station in Arlington (cheap and fast - the best way to the airport), then a taxi to my Couchsurfing host Richard's apartment at Dupont Circle. I arrived at 1 am.

Shane Bauman at Six Flags America, Baltimore

Shane and I went for dinner at a Mexican take-out (ironic, I know) called California Tortilla in Chinatown. The food was far more Americanized than what you find here in Jalisco. In general, I was amazed at how large the portion sizes are at the U.S. restaurants and take-outs. They could last me for two meals. I soon learned to order the "small" or "kids" sized dishes, but even they were a little large.
 

California Burrito meal in Chinatown, Washington, D.C. with Shane Bauman


Society of the Cincinnati Building, Dupont Circle neighborhood, Washington, D.C.


Dan Bold at the entrance to the Ronald Reagan Building and Convention Center, Washington, D.C.

After lunch at the Ronald Reagan Building food court, we walked to the Washington Monument. It's free to go up, but at this time of year you need to join a line starting at 6 am to get a ticket for that day to ascend. You can only book in advance by phone or internet. Needless to say we were too late for tickets.

Dan left to pick up his bags and move to his friend's house, and I went back to Dupont to pick up my bag. I was a little early to get to Tonetta Landis' house so I chilled and people-watched for 45 minutes in the shade of Dupont Circle park.

I took the Metro to south DC, Anacostia neighborhood, and I swear I was the only white man at the station, among hundreds of people! Tonetta and Jeremy Stanton met me and took me to Tonetta's house.


Jeremy Stanton and Tonetta Landis at Tonetta's home in Anacostia, Washington, D.C.


On Saturday the three of us drove to Sandy Point State Park on Chesapeake Bay for Shane and Dave's wedding. It was a wonderful affair. About 70 guests arrived, the ceremony was beautiful, and a BBQ picnic lunch was served afterwards. The Bay had amazingly warm water for swimming, albeit a bit silty. Frisbee and beach badminton games were set up, drinks were served, and we spent a fantastic day there alternating between food, swim, play, relax, and chat. I met a number of great people from the Gay Christian Network (GCN), many of whom I'd only known before from their posts on the website message boards.
 

Shane and Dave cutting the cake at their wedding

At 6 pm we decided to drive back. I had a very interesting chat with a guy called Nathan on the way. This vacation was filled with interesting people and lots of chin-wagging about all sorts of topics under the sun. I thoroughly enjoy this! We got Chinese takeaways and listened to a few old-school dance/soul songs to celebrate Tonetta finishing her teaching school year.

Christ Our Shepherd church in Capitol Hill, Washington, D.C.

Afterwards we went out for brunch at the Starfish Café then I got a waffle icecream. Bad idea given the heat - my hands and mouth were soon a mess and needed a wash-up! We explored the Capitol Hill "Farmer's Market", which really was a combination of a flea market, antiques and crafts market, fresh food market, and other market selling.
 

We returned for Jeremy and me to pack our bags, then we dropped off Jeremy to catch the bus to New York, and we met up with Dan and Steven. We four went to the Newseum's Walter and Leonore Annenberg Theater to watch a documentary called The Other City, about the AIDS epidemic in Washington DC. The movie had a Q&A session with the film's producer and two of the film's characters afterwards. 

We were thinking about going to a Michael Jackson Anniversary dance party, but as I had to get up early the next day and we were sobered by the movie, we decided to head home.

Monday morning I got up at 5:00. Tonetta drove me to the Rosslyn Bus Stop and I caught the 5A bus to the airport. That morning the new Metro fares had kicked in, and this particular bus now costs $6 one way, an 87% markup! All the plane flights and related papers and security went fairly smoothly and mostly on time.

But I was hindered by my belt which was attached to my shorts and unremovable. Even though the security personnel could clearly see the two small rings that made up the only metal part of the belt, this breach of protocol subjected me to a luggage search, metal detector and pat down.

From 5:45 am when I left, the trip home took over 14 hours. I've had much longer travel stints than that, but I was still tired, but happy, from an excellent vacation.

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